Dares for couples
More restraint and surrender: BDSM
Extra BDSM cards across every tier — light restraint and rules through to full surrender, always with a clear yes and an easy way to stop.
- Level 2A word to stop it allBefore anything else, agree a single word that stops everything instantly — say it back to each other so it's set.
- Level 2Hands above your headTell your partner to keep their hands up against the headboard — no restraints yet, just the rule, and they hold it.
- Level 2A soft tieLoosely loop a soft scarf around your partner's wrists — easy to slip — and watch how still it makes them go.
- Level 2Kneel and waitHave your partner kneel and wait with their eyes down while you take your time deciding what happens first.
- Level 3Bound and blindfoldedTie your partner's wrists softly and add a blindfold, then do nothing but breathe near their skin until they strain toward you.
- Level 3You may not moveOrder your partner to stay perfectly still while you tease them — the first time they move, you stop and wait.
- Level 3Count them outDeliver a slow handful of light, warming swats to your partner and have them count each one out loud.
- Level 3Ask before you speakTell your partner they need permission to speak — then tease them until staying quiet is almost impossible.
- Level 4Tied and teasedWith your partner's hands restrained, tease them everywhere with your mouth and hands — they can't touch back, only take it.
- Level 4Earn each stepTell your partner they have to earn every escalation — a please, a thank you, holding still — before you give them more.
- Level 4Restrained and overwhelmedBound and blindfolded, your partner gets hot, cold, soft and firm in no order — overwhelm them while they can't move.
- Level 4Spank and sootheAlternate a firm swat with a slow caress on your partner, so they never know if the next touch will sting or soothe.
- Level 4Good and obedientGive your partner a set of rules to follow while you touch them, praising every time they obey and pausing when they slip.
+ 9 spicier dares waiting inside the app.